I
am Mary Mattie Francis Napier
I was born on April
13th, 1888, in Madison County, Alabama. It would be 77 years before the Lord would call me home. I suffered with high blood pressure. It was a stroke of the brain that took me on
July 12th, 1965, at I:55 A.M.
Alice tended to me as well as the colored folks doctor, Dr. James
Ashmore. They laid me to rest at Mr.
Pleasant in Leighton, Alabama. They
picked a good spot right next to my husband, Tom, who had left me back in
’39.
They wrote on my
death certificate that I was a female “Negro” though I suppose on my birth
certificate I was just “colored”. Doesn’t matter. Wasn’t much color to me then and not much color to me now. I don’t think my own ever really knew what I
was. Don’t suppose I ever told’em.
Oh, I have started
to ramble and be distracted from why we are here. You want to know about who I am and how I connect to him. And, when I say him I do mean
Tom. I suppose this is legitimate
because it seems that my life began with Tom.
Tom Hawkins, Thomas Walton, Tom Walton Hawkins, or whatever he was
calling himself. But, REMEMBER. This story is more about my people and
me. This is about the Napier
family.
As I said I was
born in ’88 and by 1900 census records show that I was living in Russelville,
Alabama. Now, we didn’t have fancy cars
like you do now. We had the horse and
the buggy. I was just a girl and I
can’t recall how we, Tom and I, got to Russelville. Could have been by train, could have been by horse and buggy,
could have been by hook or crook. You
see; I was just a little girl….
By nineteen and ten
records show that Tom and I had jumped counties to Colbert, the Brick
precinct. We had been married for 11
years. Records will document that this
is where we remained up to and beyond 1930.
Now, I realize that you all wonder exactly how many children did I
have. The legend of Tom is that he had
over 40 children, mostly outside children.
This is not for a wife to speak of and I will only tell you what you can
prove: I gave birth to 12
children. The rest is up to you.
It is not for me to
tell you about me in my later years. My
grand babies can do that far better than I.
Let’s pause and see me, Grandma Mary, through their eyes…..
The story of Mary must include how she lived as
well as how she died. We are fortunate to have those who spent time with
Grandma Mary. On February 12th and 13th
of this year Trey interviewed four of her grandchildren: Robert C. Hawkins, Anna Williams, Horace
Hawkins, Sr., and Parker Lee Hawkins. The
first person interviewed was my father, Robert. Robert knew Mary as an old woman and he as a teenager. Grandpa Tom had long since passed on. "Grandma stayed with Aunt Alice in a
two room house," states Robert.
Sometimes he would stay with her and "she would work with us in the
field". She would occasionally
visit friends such as Nellie Graham or one called "M". Grandma Mary would occasionally drink and she
dipped snuff. "She had a good
mind" and would sometimes talk about Grandpa Tom. However, mostly she would talk about her
children. Mary's hobbies included
making patchwork quilts.
Anna also remembers that Grandma Mary dipped snuff
and drank a little beer every now and then.
"Grandma was very outspoken ...and she talked very, very southern." Anna recalls a statement, which Grandma Mary
made about her own parents. "I
remember my daddy; he was tall and light-skinned....my mother could sit on her
hair." Grandma Mary would visit in
Cincinnati during the summer months.
She would primarily stay with her daughter Annie Mae and spend time in
the home of her daughter Bulah, Anna's mother. As for a description of Grandma
Mary Anna states she looked younger than her years, her skin appearing like
that of an Indian. Grandma Mary had
"light skin...(straight) hair...blue eyes...high cheek bones...bow
legs...and large hips." "She
was very nice."
In contrast to Anna 's description, Horace
remembers that Grandma Mary was a "quiet lady" Horace notes that back
then grandparents didn't sit and talk with kids the way they do today. He states there was "no
scolding." Horace also remembered
that Grandma Mary raised one of her grandchildren, Frank Hawkins. Frank is the son of Willie Lee Hawkins;
Horace's brother, Parker Lee, would share this memory as well.
Parker Lee states that Grandma Mary was nice and
in good health as he recalls. He was
aged 25. "She worked with us all
the time." Parker Lee also
remembered that Aunt Alice would stay with her. Grandma Mary belonged to Cumberland Presbyterian Church. Physically, Parker Lee describes Mary as a
"white Indian" which coincides with Anna's description. Robert and Horace would state that Mary
looked like an older "white woman."
Both descriptions suggest a mixed heritage.
My grandbabies have
told you all you need to know about me.
I could tell you about my children but most of that you already
know. But, do you know about my people? What Alice remembered in my death was that
my father’s name was John – John Napier.
Poppa lived in Cluttsville in Madison County or what some people call
Huntsville. By nineteen and ten Poppa
would be alone, a widower at age 68. My
mother, Martha, had died and left him behind.
In 1870, before I
was born, the census records show a household with my father, aged 28, and my
mother, aged 23, living in Huntsville, Alabama. Poppa was a farmer, momma kept house. Three of my sisters were there:
Hester at age 9. Tennessee at age 2, and Angeline at age 8. A farm laborer, Mr. John Townsend, lived
with them as well. The 1880 census
would show some variation in the ages of my sisters. It also showed that I had two brothers: James aged 3 and Ernest aged 5 months. A marriage certificate shows that my sister, Angeline, married
Nathaniel Langford in Madison County on January 3, 1887. Mariah, documented as Maria, married Charlie
Betts on May 6, 1894 in Madison County.
Memories of my family would soon begin to fade
with my death and the deaths of my children.
My daughter-in-law Barbara, Robert Lee would call her Bobbie, eventually
remembered my sister, Hester. Her son,
Robert Carson, would have a vague recollection of an “Aunt Add” or an Aunt Ang
for Angeline. Other memories would be
of incidents with no names. They only
know that my family, the Napiers, came from Madison County and that we connect,
somehow, to Chattanooga.
My hopes are that
as you read this you will not forget. I
want you to know my family as you know your own. For some, you will look to the past. Explore the mystery of my grandfather, my father’s father. Was he John S. Napier or John W.S.
Napier? Does John Hawkins Napier hold
the key?
For others, you
will look to the future. Locate the
descendants of John and Martha Napier.
Find their children; find their grandchildren. Leave no stone unturned.
These people, my people, are closer than you think. And REMEMBER, as much as I was Mrs. Thomas
Hawkins, I am Mary Mattie Francis Napier.